Monday, June 6, 2016

Helping people through repatterning their view of truth for them

I am called Mort Nicholson.  You can learn a bit more about me here,  http://nicholsonpep.com/AboutMort.aspx or simply put I believe in a quotation from Henry Ford “If you believe you can, or believe you can’t, you’re right”.  Note, I adjusted his word “think” to “believe”.  My experience is repatterining, changing, adjusting, beliefs really helps people.  You may see an example that speaks to you. 

I often use case studies (repatterned to be anonymous) in teaching and in ways intended to help clients understand what is possible for them.  The basis for this work is our behavior automatically comes from what we believe.   Adjusting a belief can easily allow behavior that limits us to turn into enabling behavior.  This blog is intended to share these examples more widely to help others.  We’ll see.

I met a young woman at a health fair.  She was way overweight, stared down as she talked, seemed unhappy and seemed embarrassed to even be there.  Even though I had only 15 minutes to connect and help her, it was enough, and she called for a telephone consultation appointment.  Showed me I didn’t necessarily need an hour to be helpful. 

She described having been raped three different times by different men she knew, and had thought might become boyfriends.  She is a professionally trained person and knew she was fat and unattractive to protect herself.  It was working.  She started to talk about the events and I asked her not to, so she didn’t experience them again—thus traumatizing herself yet again.  

As often happens with sudden traumatic events, she had formed the following beliefs “I am not worthy,  I am powerless, I am afraid, I am alone."  She wanted to adjust these to essentially the opposite “I am worthy, I am powerful, I am safe, I trust myself and others, etc”   She was clear that having these beliefs made sense to her and was surprised since she thought she remembered believing such things before. Before the trauma began, that is. 

The approach we use is, with the client’s permission, to energetically adjust one belief at a time from the existing belief to a new belief.  In this, and a subsequent session, we did that.  Yes, there is training for learning to do this, either, rapidly or more slowly—the approach, I was trained in, is rapid. 

Most people don’t notice, but there’s a constant flow of energy in and all around us—what’s important is learning how to use it to accomplish long-term goals or just get through each day.  With this source of increased energy, you can feel more alive, more vibrant, and more in harmony with the earth and people around you.  When we stop the flow, with resentments, fear, and so on, we can become ill and often, very often, not achieve what we want.  


Sometimes I hear about people’s results.  In this case, she called for a followup session, fifteen  months later.  This often happens as people become alert to behavior that is not helpful and know there is a way out.  They call.  After working, I spontaneously invited her, no charge, to a training session we were conducting in personal energy.  She came.  When I met her at the door, I didn’t recognize her.  She was tall, slim, erect and looking me in the eyes.  And proud and happy.  

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